Why do supporters of big government often accuse those who disagree with them of hating people?

They want the government to take the money from the productive elements of society, and redistribute it in the name of "compion", because this allows them to feel superior to others and allows them to feel better about themselves, without actually costing them anything. Then they secretly hope that when the wealth is redistributed, some "crumbs" will fall their way, because they always lust for "something for nothing".