Revenge on my parents for meanness?

My mom and dad are total sucky parents! and I want to get revenge on them for not letting me go to an all night rave and be with my y bf and his other gf, I mean I am a totally mature 14 year old! Last time I put used condoms and tampons all over the house and I shoved my moms hair brush up my crotch and ***. I want her to pay big time any suggestions?