Sorry-the question is way too long !! but I BADLY NEED A SINCERE ADVICE !!! please frnds,spare a few minutes?

Your problem is not that unusual . It is very often seen among Indian couples whose families are deeply rooted in tradition and customs .Judging by the manner of his behavior towards you , he still loves you but he cant admit it because he knows he cant marry you and then letting you go would be harder than it is right now . The only reason he said that he was lusting after you was just so you would break all ties with him ... for both your sakes . I see only 2 solutions to this problem and both are at the either extremes . If you cant accept the fact that he is'nt ready to go against his parents wishes , then you just have to let him go and forget about the whole thing . Or if you still want him in your life , you should ask your parents or relatives to meet with his parents to discuss about marriage , that way his family would'nt just disregard your relationship and it would'nt technically be a love marriage if his parents accept . These seem to be the 2 best possible options for you to consider . Good luck and don't give up hope !!!