Abortion Debate Help ?

Have you ever noticed that when people bang on about their rights, they are never interested in hearing about your rights. In this scenario, the babies rights. What about the babies right to a life, the baby never had the choice as to if is should be conceived, nor if it wants to be murdered. I think that should be included in the argument when rights are discussed. Once the egg and sperm have co-mingled, there is life. If not why is there a need for either the egg or the sperm?. Therefore to abort the foetus is to murder life, a human being. Why is that so hard to understand? I strongly object to aborting the child purely for contraception,it has to be wrong. I refuse to discuss this subject on religious grounds, but I will debate it on humanitarian grounds.